Wanna be FOREVER Young?

Ever experienced that feeling of wanting to be forever young? Be younger than your real age? Never grow old as far as possible?

Seems impossible right? ‘Coz everyone knows that age really increments and never decrements… People would like to stop counting birthdays once they reach the age of thirty. Wrinkles appear, cheeks sag, figure loses its beauty.

What may seem impossible way back has been made possible through science and technology. Age 40 may seem 20… Figure-conscious women may bring their statistics back… 

Beauty shops, dermatological clinics, weight-loss programs, fitness gyms have been sprouting. Offering billions of ways to stay beutiful and fit. It’s just up to people to choose the program they want to engage in.

Indeed, beauty matters!

Secrets You should Never Tell your Guy…

It has been a nature in every relationship to get intimate with each other. By being intimate, we mean getting too close and getting too comfy with the opposite sex. It is best shown by hugging, kissing, calling terms of endearment, and other sweet nothings. Some couples even don’t mind showing their affection in public. Conservative folks coin it as “PDA” or Public Display of Affection. Getting too intimate causes both parties to share almost everything about each other’s lives and even expose their deepest darkest secrets. It’s due to the fact that in any relationship be it in the family or within friends, the value of trust is build. How much more within two people who spent most of their ample time together. They not only treat their mate as someone special but also as a best friend. But is it appropriate to be blubbering everything about you?

I just read an article from a magazine that there should be limitation on the extent of revealing oneself. Women in particular must avoid telling the following:

1. How nasty your former lover was. Complaining everything about your ex may cause your partner to think that it’s your indirect way of complaining about him. He would most likely think that you’re comparing him with your ex.
2. You hate the way he kisses. Men are quite sensitive in handling things. If you don’t like the way he kisses, then you should tell him how you want to be touched. Tell him gently without touching his ego.
3. Saying, “I’m ugly!”. Women by nature have insecurities particularly on their physical aspect. When you first divulge this to your partner, he will convince you that he likes you just the way you are. Nevertheless, don’t overdo it ’cause you might give him the impression that he doesn’t deserve your love.

It’s always a good gesture to be honest. But it’s also not bad to keep something for ourselves.   

Why People tend to be Judgmental?

When you speak so sweet, people say you’re flirtatious…but when you speak too deep, they say you’re being harsh! When you can’t look at someone straight in the eye, you have hidden feelings for him, and when you stare for the longest time possible, you are obssessed with the person!

If these are the common scenarios, then how must one person act? If every move he makes, he is being watched, then how can he express his real self? his emotions? his desires? When everything he does is being judged!    

It’s an innate character of a human being to be judgmental… But is it right to be such? When it’s out of the context then it should be stopped. When people get hurt and people’s dignity are demoralized then it’s not something to be happy about.

As the saying goes, “Don’t judge a book by it’s cover”… or “Put yourself in one’s shoes before you comment!”

Nobody’s perfect so let’s just respect each other… For all we know, we too are being judged!