Secrets You should Never Tell your Guy…

It has been a nature in every relationship to get intimate with each other. By being intimate, we mean getting too close and getting too comfy with the opposite sex. It is best shown by hugging, kissing, calling terms of endearment, and other sweet nothings. Some couples even don’t mind showing their affection in public. Conservative folks coin it as “PDA” or Public Display of Affection. Getting too intimate causes both parties to share almost everything about each other’s lives and even expose their deepest darkest secrets. It’s due to the fact that in any relationship be it in the family or within friends, the value of trust is build. How much more within two people who spent most of their ample time together. They not only treat their mate as someone special but also as a best friend. But is it appropriate to be blubbering everything about you?

I just read an article from a magazine that there should be limitation on the extent of revealing oneself. Women in particular must avoid telling the following:

1. How nasty your former lover was. Complaining everything about your ex may cause your partner to think that it’s your indirect way of complaining about him. He would most likely think that you’re comparing him with your ex.
2. You hate the way he kisses. Men are quite sensitive in handling things. If you don’t like the way he kisses, then you should tell him how you want to be touched. Tell him gently without touching his ego.
3. Saying, “I’m ugly!”. Women by nature have insecurities particularly on their physical aspect. When you first divulge this to your partner, he will convince you that he likes you just the way you are. Nevertheless, don’t overdo it ’cause you might give him the impression that he doesn’t deserve your love.

It’s always a good gesture to be honest. But it’s also not bad to keep something for ourselves.